Celebrating the festive season away from loved ones can be quite difficult and lonely. It's easy to long for the customs and people you've left behind in your home nation. The way people mark these occasions in your adopted country might be quite unlike what you're accustomed to back home.
This marks my 5th Christmas in Australia. Every year, I tell myself it will become easier being separated from my loved ones. Unfortunately, that hasn't happened. Each time I'm away from home, I feel a pull to return to the US. Christmas was always significant in my family—the one occasion when everyone would gather to celebrate together.
Homesickness can be quite difficult to avoid at certain times throughout the festive period. When it strikes, it's crucial to avoid withdrawing from others. Keep in touch with those you care about back home. Modern technology has made staying connected with loved ones simple, regardless of your location globally. During the holidays, my family and I have a regular video call scheduled. They understand how irritable I become when my Auntie Tetie misses chatting with her little one over the festive season.
*If you're feeling alone during the festive period, don't hesitate to seek help. In Australia, ring Lifeline on 131114. In the US, dial 1-800-273-8255. Or text 741741 from anywhere to connect with a counsellor*
Whether you're spending your first Christmas abroad or your 50th away from home, a few helpful strategies can make the festive period more manageable while overseas.
Firstly, DON'T WITHDRAW INTO YOURSELF! It's tempting to do this, but resist the urge! Withdrawing during the festive season will only make you feel homesick and melancholy. Find the motivation to venture out and spend time with others. If you've recently moved to a new country, numerous pubs organise Orphan Christmas events. You'll encounter plenty of other expats experiencing the same situation. Far from home yet still enjoying the festivities. It's an excellent opportunity to celebrate and build friendships!
Second, ensure you're willing to embrace new experiences. Even with family around you, the festive period won't replicate what it's like back home. You're in an unfamiliar country. Seize this opportunity to discover its customs. Blend their celebrations with your own. This shift can create wonderful, memorable holiday traditions!
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Homesickness can be quite difficult to avoid at certain times throughout the festive period. When it strikes, it's crucial to avoid withdrawing from others. Keep in touch with those you care about back home. Modern technology has made staying connected with loved ones simple, regardless of your location globally. During the holidays, my family and I have a regular video call scheduled. They understand how irritable I become when my Auntie Tetie misses chatting with her little one over the festive season.
Finally, since you'll be separated from those close to you, you may well receive few presents. Now's the moment to spoil yourself! Should you happen to have no commitments lined up, indulge in a massage or a delicious meal. The holiday season is an excellent opportunity to venture out and discover your adopted city. Plan a brief getaway and make the most of your festive break.
Being in another country doesn't mean festive celebrations have to lose their sparkle. How do you make the most of the holiday season when you're separated from your family and friends? Drop your thoughts in the comments! If you've missed earlier instalments of the 12 Days of Blogmas series, head back and check out the previous articles.
*If you're feeling alone during the festive period, don't hesitate to seek help. In Australia, ring Lifeline on 131114. In the US, dial 1-800-273-8255. Or text 741741 from anywhere to connect with a counsellor*
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